Self care is having a moment. Some even say that the COVID-19 virus is transforming the “lipstick effect” into the “self care effect.”
I was raised to believe in self care, and specifically in self care through skin care with my brand Alchimie Forever. But what exactly is self care? Over the past couple of weeks, I connected with Britta Cox, the founder of Aquis hair, about beauty, hair care, skin care, and most recently self care. We shared our respective ways to care for our selves, in general and more specifically during this time of confinement. Here are the highlights of our conversation.
Britta’s self care wisdom:
- “Being in nature, moving and breathing deeply clears my mind and rejuvenates me. It’s also when my best ideas come, it’s when my subconscious and thoughts can float freely.
- Sleeping with the windows and doors open and breathing fresh air makes a big difference in how my skin looks and how well I sleep. It makes all the difference to feeling well-rested and fresh in the morning.
- Dry brushing. It’s a Swedish thing. Use a dry brush on dry skin, brushing towards your heart to keep lymphatic fluids and blood flowing to enhance circulation, remove toxins and keep skin healthy. Sunday is my self care day when I’ll dry brush and exfoliate from head to toe before taking a nice soak in the tub, with a few drops of oil in the water to replenish moisture.
- Exfoliating. I love the Alchimie Gentle Refining Scrub for the face, followed by the Kantic Brightening Moisture Mask. It makes my skin super smooth and it feels moisturized in a way that is lasting.
- Detoxing my scalp. The scalp also develops sebum build up. We have a wonderful Detoxifying Scalp and Hair Wash with charcoal. It cleanses deeply without stripping the hair of natural oils, and is pH balanced for the hair and scalp specifically.
- Spending time in the garden. I love spending time in the garden which is abundant with life, learnings and miracles of nature. I’ve been a certified organic gardener for 14 years, living on almost two acres, which brings such joy. You can just step outside, close your eyes, and experience life and nature everywhere. It makes you appreciate and tune into the small things in life and be in the moment.
- Beauty is all about what we put inside. I saw my first aesthetician at age 21, she got me hooked on fish oils. All of the omegas they have are one of the best things you can do for your skin, hair, and mental clarity. And I eat smoked salmon as another source.
- Drinking water and tea to stay hydrated. Warm tea at night helps with digestion. Chrysanthemum tea is amazing for skin and reducing inflammation & the warm tea water is cleansing.
- Music. A good playlist can help you find your Zen, and completely change your mood.”
I shared some of my current self-care rituals as well, which include:
- Stepping outside and breathing fresh air. I try to spend part of every day outdoors, for my mental and emotional well-being.
- Exercising 3-5 times a week. It has a positive effect on my skin. Exercise activates blood circulation, it’s good for my mental state, and for my physique. Normally I’m a morning exerciser but had a challenging day and decided to go for an evening run. I needed to shift my mental state and sometimes to do that I have to engage my body and shift my physical state.
- Masking it up. I sleep with the K18Peptide™ Masque overnight. It’s so good for my hair and amazing at mending split ends.
- Caring for my hands and feet. I’ve been using cuticle oil like crazy. None of us are getting manicures or pedicures so I’m doing my own thing. I love Aveda foot and hand relief in addition to Alchimie Dry Skin Balm.
- Scrubbing my body. My alternative to dry brushing (although I may have to embrace this technique) is Aveda’s Beautifying Radiance Polish. When we’re young our dead skin cells naturally fall off. As we age, those natural processes get a little lazier and don’t function as well. The older you get the more important it is for you to help your body naturally shed dead skin cells. Be super gentle with the skin on your face and neck—it’s delicate, but the body benefits from a good scrub. Always scrub against gravity, so from the feet up your legs, from the hands up your arms, it’s good for lymphatic drainage.
- Smelling the roses (or magnolias in this case). My husband brings flowers into the house. We’re in Louisiana right now and he brought in a magnolia from our tree.
- Soaking it up. I’ve been taking baths almost every night which I don’t normally do. It feels so good for my head, and I love the feeling of weightlessness. Kneipp bath salts make the baths feel like a real treatment.
- Being mindful of what I eat and drink. What we eat and drink is reflected in our skin. I’m trying to eat extra healthfully, and be very diligent about going three days each week without alcohol. A trip to the fridge is the most tempting trip. My girlfriends and I joke about the COVID-19. I don’t want that.
- Taking care of others. The other aspect of self-care is care of others, your children, your spouse, your partner, care of people who can’t care for themselves.
Last but not least, we both agreed that gratitude is a powerful form of self care. To read more about our respective silver linings, click here.
How are you taking care of yourself during these times?
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Wow! Thai boxing… you are an inspiration!
Taking care of myself has not been much different than “normal” times : I have a home office (I am a writer and a poetess of the everyday), I am always very disciplined with myself, getting up in the morning, looking in the mirror and applying as much Alchimie Forever skin care as required to make me smile and smiling long enough until the smile looks beautiful to me… new is that because I have been moving less, because of lock-down, I have started to exercise with Mimiko Türkkan, a fabulous artist I work with in my gallery, but also a champion in Thaï boxing. Mimiko is in Istanbul, I am in Geneva, she teaches me through Skype, I will not become a champion but the soft work out I do is soooo good for body and mind ! My music for these times has been very special : my wonder nephew Nikias Imhoof is a pianist but had no place any more to practice — his school closed — so I had a piano installed in my gallery for him to play whenever he needs to — and so I have been taking care of him and at the same time got my everyday live music during all of lock-down… I am so grateful. Thank you Ada, thank you Mimiko, thank you Nikias, thank you all for sharing — and back to work !