It's not how you play the game… it's if you win or lose. Or is it the other way around?

My father taught me to always win. To be the best. To be the first. In school. At piano. In college. At work.My mother, in more typically female style, tells me "It's not if you win or lose, it's how you play the game."Depending on the day, and on the football game, I go back…