The wisdom of Arianna Huffington

Yesterday, during the first few hours of Cosmoprof Las Vegas and PBA Beauty Week, I brushed elbows with Pamela Anderson (BayWatch is actually one of the few TV shows I watched during high school, so this was a big deal), and attended the City of Hope gala, which was MCd by Mario Lopez (while I never watched Saved by the Bell, I did have a crush on him at some point during my teenage years). Yesterday, I thought, was a special day. This morning, however, put yesterday to shame. This morning, I had the opportunity to see and listen to Arianna Huffington. If given the chance to dine with the person of my choice, she would be the one (ahead of Bill Belichick, Tom Brady, or Brad Pitt). This morning, she was absolutely amazing. I am in awe of her. This morning, she made me want to write for her even more, and even better.

This morning, she spoke about the necessity of taking care of our “human capital.” What resonated most with me was her message about sleep, and the ability to disconnect. One of my New Year’s resolutions last year was to develop a better morning routine (my current morning routine involves looking at my emails on my phone about ½ second after my phone alarm goes off, before even being fully awake). Last year, I did not succeed at this resolution. Today, Arianna inspired me to try again.

As a self-proclaimed “sleep evangelist,” she has made her bedroom a technology-free room. When she asked how many of us in the audience slept with our phones next to our bed, most of us raised our hands. I certainly do, sometimes even my phone in my bed. She has made it a habit to give alarm clocks as gifts. I do have an alarm clock, purchased early last year when I made that morning routine resolution – I have yet to learn how to use it.

She also discussed the need to give yourself at least 5 minutes in the morning to “re-enter the world,” before reaching for our various devices and reading the news or emails. This coming from the leader of a 24/7 online news and content company…

She spoke of our need to be constantly connected as “an addiction.” She spoke of the need to unplug and recharge. She spoke of the importance of being able to wonder at life, to notice its beauty. Wondering and noticing are hard to do when constantly connected to a device. How often do I text or check emails while walking, instead of looking around me and noticing the beauty of the sky, of my surroundings? Without even noticing the people around me…

On Tuesday, when I get home, I will charge my phone in a room other than the bedroom, and spend 5 minutes on Wednesday morning thinking about what I am grateful for, and what my goals are for that day. Thank you Arianna. And thank you for signing my copy of On Becoming Fearless!

My summer reading list

One of the best things about summer is summer vacation. And one of the best things about summer vacation, or at least about my summer vacation, is the ability to spend day after day reading to my heart’s delight. I try to read a book every two days while on summer vacation. When I left for Greece just over a week ago, these are the books I took with me. I have a couple more days to finish…

The three novels by Jessica Anya Blau: The Summer of Naked Swim Parties, Drinking Closer to Home, and The Wonder Bread Summer. The latter is her latest, published this summer, and happens to be our book club pick for our July meeting. Since Jessica herself will be there for book club, I thought it would be great to read all three of her books.  I am almost one with the third one, and enjoyed all, laughing and cringing sometimes at the same time.

On Becoming Fearless in Love, Work and Life by Arianna Huffington. While I have always admired her, I have become slightly obsessed with this amazing woman since starting to write for her publication in January of this year. I enjoyed her book, an easy read despite the fact that it is non-fiction and could be called a self-help book, and was reminded of elementary truths that somehow are so easily forgotten. Possibly my favorite quote of the book: “Ships in the harbor are safe, but this is not what ships are made for.”

Rubies in the Orchard by Lynda Resnick. I have been meaning to read this book for a while, as I am fascinated by the marketing brain behind POM Wonderful and FIJI Water – the former basically creating the category of pomegranate products, and the latter representing a success in a category dominated by the likes of Coca-Cola and Pepsi and the ultimate free alternative, tap water. Reading this business (marketing) book on the beach, I thought about my website, a possible Youtube video contest idea, and about my own product in a creative, relaxed way.

Finally, on the plane ride home, I plan on reading The 4-Hour Workweek by Timothy Ferriss. While I had heard of this book, four people mentioned it to me within 10 days of me leaving for vacation, which I took as a sign. And leaving this one for last, I am hoping that I will learn some tips that will somehow make the return from vacation a little more painless. At least that is what the cover, a picture of two palm trees and a hammock, is leading me to believe…